Should We Have “The Talk”? When? How? Question: “I have been dating someone for three months, and we’re exclusive (not seeing other people). I’m ready to define the relationship (DTR) but don’t want to lose him if he’s not ready. How to have the talk?” My response: “For better or for worse (and I hope…
How to Build a Deeper Connection with a Man: The Power of Appreciation If you’re looking to build a real, meaningful connection with a man, there’s one game-changer that’s often overlooked: genuine appreciation. Why Appreciation is the Secret to Connection (No Gifts Required) Before you think that appreciation means showering him with gifts or constantly…
Are you stuck in a relationship rut? Are things progressing more slowly than you would like with the guy you’re dating? Navigating the world of dating and commitment can be tricky, especially when it seems like you might be unintentionally pushing guys away. Here are two common mistakes I see my clients make without realizing…
Are you wasting time in a toxic relationship? If you’re wondering how to tell if you’re in a toxic relationship or how to know when it’s time to break up with someone you love, ask yourself the following question: Does your relationship make you feel sad and anxious more often than it makes you feel…
Virtual Dates – 10 Helpful Tips for Video Date Success While nothing can replace an in-person date, during the pandemic, virtual video dates became very popular. Chatting with someone new from the warmth and comfort of your own home does have its advantages. And virtual dates work especially well when dating someone who lives far…
Are you dating a narcissist? This is such an important question because being in a relationship with a narcissist can make you very unhappy. Dating a narcissist can be a hell of a rollercoaster ride, one that’s mostly downhill. How to spot a narcissist when you’re dating As someone who’s been in a relationship with…
Is online safe, or are dating apps dangerous? I often get asked if online dating is safe, and for the most part, the answer is, “yes”. I believe 98% of men who date online have good intentions. It’s the other 2% you need to watch out for. I’m a fan of online dating. Dating apps…
Do you ever wonder if you’re too picky when you date? If you tend to focus on what’s wrong when you meet someone new, you might be too picky. It’s a common self-protective habit, but what if I told you focusing on flaws could be blocking your success finding love? In the video below, I…
Wondering where to find a quality single man? While I’m a big fan of Meetup groups, speed dating events, and chatting up strangers pretty much anywhere (I met my husband at a restaurant), if you want to know where to find a single man, playing Pickleball is by far the most fun way to uplevel…
Cheesy pick up lines are a silly art form, and they’re fun! If you’re looking for a goofy icebreaker, cheesy pick up lines might just help you meet someone special. Or at least start a conversation and get a good laugh. 🙂 Even though it might not always feel like it, I assure you, there…
Red Flags in a Relationship – 15 Things You Should Never Ignore. We’ve all been there – you meet a guy, and things seem to be going great, but then you start noticing some concerning behavior. It’s so important to be aware of red flags in a relationship. As a dating coach who’s worked with…
Gaslighting examples – Is this happening to you? Are you constantly second-guessing yourself in relationships? Do you feel like you can’t trust your own perception of reality? If so, you might be experiencing gaslighting. Gaslighting is a form of emotional abuse that can leave you feeling confused, anxious, and powerless. As someone who’s experienced gaslighting…
